是什么危险信号让你立即停止与人交谈? Ranjini Nair 的回答火了

2021-03-07 00:27

What was a red flag that made you stop talking to a person immediately? eb0世界播

是什么危险信号让你立即停止与人交谈?eb0世界播


Answered by: Ranjini Nair ( ),works at Canada (2016-present) eb0世界播

回答者:兰吉尼·奈尔(),在加拿大工作(2016年至今)eb0世界播


So, here it goes. eb0世界播

所以,它开始了。eb0世界播


I used to be friends with this girl. We were roommates at the time and was close enough to discuss each other's life. eb0世界播

我以前和这个女孩是朋友。我们当时是室友,关系很亲密,可以讨论彼此的生活。eb0世界播


One evening while we were chatting, something came up about divorced women. One of our mutual friends were going through a bad marriage and divorce had been finalized. eb0世界播

一天晚上,当我们聊天时,突然出现了一些关于离婚妇女的事情。我们的一个共同的朋友正在经历一段糟糕的婚姻,离婚已经敲定。eb0世界播


What I already knew was, this woman was a devoted Catholic who quoted words from holy book more often, a homophobic which, she openly admitted to, in the past among our friends. In fact, She took pride in that. Even though I disagreed with her extremist views, it didn't occur to me as to break our friendship over these differences until then. eb0世界播

我已经知道的是,这个女人是一个虔诚的天主教徒,她经常引用圣书中的话,她公开承认,她过去在我们的朋友中是一个同性恋恐惧者。事实上,她对此感到自豪。尽管我不同意她的极端主义观点,但直到那时我才意识到,我们的友谊会因为这些分歧而破裂。eb0世界播


This time, she exclaimed to my utter shock, “Divorcees are the worst people. Especially women. Why do they even continue to exist without a man, after breaking their sacred marriage vows? Sure they go to hell.“ eb0世界播

这一次,她惊呼道:“离婚者是最糟糕的人。尤其是女人。为什么她们在违背神圣的婚姻誓言后,在没有男人的情况下还能继续存在呢?他们当然会下地狱。“。eb0世界播


I was quiet for a while. I kept thinking about what I just heard. It was still processing in my mind about what this woman just said about other women whose life she never lived.All the while, this woman had the audacity to continue making extremely insensitive and rather more vile statements as to why she hated divorced women. eb0世界播

我沉默了一段时间。我一直在想我刚才听到的。这位女士刚才说的那些她从未生活过的女人的话,还在我脑海中浮现,这位女士一直在厚颜无耻地继续发表极其麻木不仁、更加恶毒的言论,说她为什么讨厌离婚的女人。“。”eb0世界播


I have had enough. It was my home. I asked her to move out as soon as possible. She was pretty hateful afterwards. I stood my ground. She moved out in a week and never called since. eb0世界播

我受够了。那是我的家。我让她尽快搬出去。后来她变得相当可恶。我坚持自己的立场。她一周后就搬出去了,从那以后就再也没有打过电话。eb0世界播


My mother has been widowed really young, not divorced. Never remarried. Raised two daughters and did just great without a man all her life. eb0世界播

我母亲很年轻就丧偶了,没有离婚。从未再婚。养大了两个女儿,一生没有男人也过得很好。eb0世界播


I didn't need such a friend to tell me otherwise. eb0世界播

我不需要这样的朋友来告诉我不是这样的。eb0世界播

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