How do you insult a narcissist?
你怎么侮辱一个自恋者？
Answered by: Nick Horeton,16 Years With Narcissistic covert and malignant women.
答案是：尼克·霍尔顿，16年来一直与自我陶醉的隐秘和恶毒的女人在一起
These tend to work.
这些方法往往会奏效。
Tell them someone told you that they didn't like the narcissistic person.
告诉他们有人告诉你他们不喜欢那个自恋的人。
Compare what you have to theirs and tell them it's shit. Example, your cars shit compared to mine.
把你的和他们的比较一下，告诉他们那是狗屎。比方说，你的车跟我的车比起来就是狗屎。
Accuse them of cheating.
指责他们作弊。
When they tell you that you're killing their vibe respond with good, that's what I wanted.
当他们告诉你你用好的方式扼杀了他们的共鸣反应时，这就是我想要的。
Tell them they are liars in an offensive manner. Example, you're so full of shit.
用冒犯的方式告诉他们他们是骗子。举个例子，你就是一堆狗屎。
Whatever task they ask you to do and they say you did a bad job, when time comes do a really shit job and then when they tell you that you did a bad job respond with “Well this time I went off your personal best,” and when they look confused sigh at them and walk away
无论他们让你做什么，他们都会说你做得不好，当时间到了，你真的做得很糟糕，然后当他们告诉你你做得很糟糕时，回答说“好吧，这一次我偏离了你的个人最佳状态”，当他们看起来很困惑的时候，叹息一声，然后走开。
If you are talking with a group and they go to say their version of an event all excited just cut them off. This one gets results every time.
如果你正在和一群人交谈，他们去说他们对一件事的看法都很兴奋，那就打断他们的话。这一次每次都会有结果。
When they fk up remind them how hopeless they are.
当他们振作起来的时候，提醒他们他们是多么的绝望。
Refer to them as Jekyll or Hide because sooner or later they will do it to you.
称他们为Jekyll或Hide，因为他们迟早会这样对你。
Remind them how lucky they are that they have you for doing the most smallest of tasks.
提醒他们有你做最小的任务，他们是多么幸运。
Tell them they are the worst and scariest driver you've ever seen when they do something silly by accident like clip the gutter whilst driving and double it up by saying someone they know told you too that they were a really scary and dangerous driver.
告诉他们，他们是你见过的最糟糕、最可怕的司机，当他们在开车时意外地做了一些愚蠢的事情，比如在开车时修剪排水沟，然后加倍地说，他们认识的人也告诉你，他们是一个非常可怕和危险的司机。
Cheat on them.
欺骗他们。
Stare at them when they aren't looking until they do notice you staring and when asked what's wrong reply “not much” or “nothing” in a disappointed tone after an incident.
当他们没有注意到你盯着他们看的时候，就盯着他们看，当被问到有什么不对劲的时候，他们会用失望的语气回答“没什么”或“没什么”。
Tell them you found someone else that's higher maintenance and you took up the offer when dumping them.
告诉他们你找到了另一个维修费更高的人，当你抛弃他们时，你接受了这个提议。
Refuse sex
拒绝性行为。
Tell them you're moving on after a fight.
告诉他们你们吵架后会继续生活。
Tell them they aren't good in their profession.
告诉他们他们不擅长他们的职业。
Not accept any blame shifting attempts and keep reminding them it is their fault and you don't want to hear anything because they are liars. Call every lie until they have to walk away.
不要接受任何推卸责任的企图，并不断提醒他们这是他们的错，你不想听任何事情，因为他们是骗子。把每一个谎言都说出来，直到他们不得不离开。
Tell them they are shit in bed.
告诉他们他们在床上是屎。
Call them narcissistic, borderline, bipolar, freak, psycho, adhd, asperger etc.
称他们为自恋、边缘、躁郁症、怪胎、神经病、多动症、亚斯伯格等。
When you push back on plans they are trying to make, tell them a cheap excuse and end it with, “ I'm sorry if that caused you pain.”
当你回击他们试图制定的计划时，告诉他们一个廉价的借口，并以“如果这给你带来了痛苦，我很抱歉”结束。
Every argument tell them that you're sorry they view you so poorly and that's their issue to deal with.
每一次争论都会告诉他们你很抱歉，他们对你的看法太差了，这是他们要处理的问题。
Tell them they look much older than they are.
告诉他们他们看起来比实际年龄大得多。
If you're texting and they send you something like photos or videos to watch don't refer to them and talk about yourself and an experience you've had and pretend the photos or videos never existed.
如果你在发短信，他们给你发了一些像照片或视频这样的东西让你看，不要提及他们，谈论你自己和你的经历，假装这些照片或视频根本不存在。
Some of these work on everyone.
其中一些对每个人都有效。
Others strike a little harder to a narcissist.
对于自恋者来说，其他人的打击要更严厉一些。
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