What would make a narcissist come back after they broke up with you?
Answered by: Bukola
They never left. They were on HIBERNATION.
Narcissists never fully break up with you. They can use the word break up, to hurt their significant other, but the truth is, they are never done.
What comes next is the no contact moment. This can go on for weeks or months. Naturally, you would think it’s over, all of a sudden, they will show up.You are so excited to have them back, they will tell you their reason for silence, you’ll either feel sorry for them or you feel guilty. The truth is, it’s never you. It’s them controlling your mind and driving you bonkers.
The vicious cycle continues, until your endurance wanes.
Chances are you will call off the relationship before the narcissist does. They are like vampires, but this time sucking on your sanity. You have to be wise to the ploy.
Narcissist coming back to their significant other in my experience is not for love. You are the prey and they are the predators.
They enjoy the attention you give them, welcoming them back, letting them know you miss them and can’t wait for everything to be back to normal.
This strokes their ego.
BAM- they achieved their aim, and they know you are hooked. They call the shots for the most part, and you are just playing along.
So, What would make a narcissist come back after their Hibernation or Hiatus ?
To show their Dominance.