婚姻生活中似乎没有人谈论的一个方面是什么? Amy Swift 的回答火了

2020-11-19 20:06

What is an aspect of married life that nobody seems to talk about? Dt7世界播

婚姻生活中似乎没有人谈论的一个方面是什么?Dt7世界播


Answered by: Amy Swift,Dating Advisor (Part-time) at Luxy Dating (2019-present) Dt7世界播

回答:艾米·斯威夫特(Amy Swift),Luxy约会公司的约会顾问(兼职)(2019年至今)Dt7世界播


I've gathered some interesting facts of marriage that you can read before you're getting married. Dt7世界播

我收集了一些有趣的婚姻事实,你可以在结婚前读一读。Dt7世界播


1. Your sex life doesn't have to sink after kids. Dt7世界播

1.你的性生活不必因为有了孩子而消沉。Dt7世界播


According to the iVillage survey, 52 percent of married women, and 49 percent of married men said they had hotter sex before kids, but a third and nearly a third of women said there has been no change since becoming parents, and get this -- 8 percent of women, and 22 percent of men say sex actually got better after kids! Dt7世界播

根据iVillage的调查,52%的已婚女性和49%的已婚男性表示,他们在孩子之前有过更热的性生活,但三分之一和近三分之一的女性表示,成为父母后没有任何变化,明白吗--8%的女性和22%的男性表示,孩子之后的性生活实际上变得更好了!Dt7世界播


2. The ‘in love’ phase lasts about a year. Dt7世界播

2.“恋爱”阶段大约持续一年。Dt7世界播


The honeymoon phase doesn’t go on forever. According to a 2005 study by the University of Pavia in Italy, it lasts about ta year. After that, levels of a chemical called “nerve growth factor,” which is associated with intense romantic feelings, start to fall. Dt7世界播

蜜月期不会永远持续下去。根据意大利帕维亚大学2005年的一项研究,它大约持续一年。在那之后,一种名为“神经生长因子”的化学物质的水平开始下降,这种化学物质与强烈的浪漫情绪有关。Dt7世界播


3. If you get excited for your partner's good news, you'll have a better relationship. Dt7世界播

3.如果你为伴侣的好消息感到兴奋,你们的关系会更好。Dt7世界播


4. A few arguments every now and then are actually good for your marriage. Dt7世界播

4.偶尔几次争吵实际上对你的婚姻有好处。Dt7世界播


In 2012, Florida State University researchers found that bursts of arguments can actually be beneficial to relationships. Dt7世界播

2012年,佛罗里达州立大学的研究人员发现,爆发争吵实际上对恋爱关系是有益的。Dt7世界播


5. Divorce may be contagious. Dt7世界播

5.离婚可能会传染。Dt7世界播


I don’t want to ruin your double date plans but the people you surround yourself with matter quite a bit. A study published in the “Social Forces” Journal in 2013 found that divorce can work like a social contagion, spreading among friends and families. If someone in your social network ― say your coworker BFF or family friend ― splits up, the statistical likelihood of ending up in divorce court yourself increases by 75 percent. Dt7世界播

我不想破坏你的四人约会计划,但你身边的人很重要。2013年发表在《社会力量》杂志上的一项研究发现,离婚就像一种社会传染病,在朋友和家人之间传播。如果你的社交网络中的某个人--比如你的同事、闺蜜或家人朋友--分手了,那么你自己走上离婚法庭的统计可能性就会增加75%。Dt7世界播


6. Couples who appreciate each other are more likely to stay together. Dt7世界播

6.相互欣赏的情侣更有可能在一起。Dt7世界播


7. Resentment builds quickly in couples who don't tackle chores together. Dt7世界播

7.不一起做家务的夫妻很快就会怨恨起来。Dt7世界播


I’d recommend a system where each person specializes in the chores they’re best at. Dt7世界播

我会推荐一种系统,让每个人都专门做他们最擅长的家务活。Dt7世界播


8. We have higher standards for marriage than ever before. Dt7世界播

8.我们对婚姻的标准比以往任何时候都要高。Dt7世界播


Before 1850, couples got hitched for the sake of food, shelter, and protection. Then with the Industrial Revolution, people had more leisure time, The '60s brought a yearning for personal fulfillment through relationships, which we continue to strive for today. That’s why there are some niche apps launched into the dating market, including the one I work for. See in my bio. Dt7世界播

1850年以前,夫妻为了食物、住所和保护而结婚。然后随着工业革命,人们有了更多的闲暇时间,20世纪60年代带来了对通过人际关系实现个人成就感的渴望,这是我们今天仍在努力争取的。这就是为什么一些利基应用程序推出到约会市场,包括我为之工作的应用程序。参见我的简历。Dt7世界播


9. The closer that partners are in age, the less likely they are to get divorced. Dt7世界播

9.伴侣的年龄越接近,他们离婚的可能性就越小。Dt7世界播


"A one-year discrepancy in a couple's ages, the study found, makes them 3 percent more likely to divorce (when compared to their same-aged counterparts); a 5-year difference, however, makes them 18 percent more likely to split up. And a 10-year difference makes them 39 percent more likely.” Dt7世界播

“研究发现,一对夫妇的年龄相差一年,他们离婚的可能性增加了3%(与同龄的人相比);然而,5年的差距使他们离婚的可能性增加了18%。10年的差距使他们离婚的可能性增加了39%。”Dt7世界播


10. The happiest marriages are between best friends. Dt7世界播

10.最幸福的婚姻发生在最好的朋友之间。Dt7世界播


Marriage leads to increased well-being - and it does so much more for those who have a close friendship with their spouses. Friendship is a key mechanism that could help explain the causal relationship between marriage and life satisfaction. Dt7世界播

婚姻会增加幸福感--对那些与配偶关系密切的人来说,婚姻带来的幸福感要大得多。友谊是一个关键机制,可以帮助解释婚姻和生活满意度之间的因果关系。Dt7世界播


If you like my answer, upvote for it. See more life and dating tips in my Quora bio - Amy Swift. Dt7世界播

如果你喜欢我的回答,那就投票赞成吧。在我的Quora传记-艾米·斯威夫特(Amy Swift)中可以看到更多生活和约会技巧。Dt7世界播


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