有哪些与上下文相关的“男式说教”的例子? C.S. Friedman 的回答火了

2020-11-19 14:05

What are examples of “mansplaining” with context? 7kK世界播

有哪些与上下文相关的“男式说教”的例子?7kK世界播


Answered by: C.S. Friedman 7kK世界播

回答者:C.S.弗里德曼7kK世界播


On Quora, there is a question asking about relative pain in the male experience, specifically comparing various types of damage to being kicked in the balls. 7kK世界播

在Quora上,有一个问题是关于男性经历中的相对疼痛,特别是比较了被踢球造成的各种伤害。7kK世界播


One male respondent elaborated upon how much that hurt, and compared it to kidney stones, which he said were worse. Then he compared that to childbirth, which he said was not as bad as kidney stones, therefore was not as bad as being kicked in the balls. (I am reducing a long and complicated explanation here, but you get the idea.) 7kK世界播

一位男性受访者详细阐述了这有多痛,并将其与肾结石相提并论,他说肾结石更严重。然后他将其与分娩相比,他说分娩没有肾结石那么糟糕,因此也没有被踢球那么糟糕。(我在这里减少了一个冗长而复杂的解释,但你明白我的意思了。)。7kK世界播


Several women responded with the obvious, that as he was not a woman and had never experienced childbirth, so he had no clue how much it did or did not compare to any other pain. He responded by saying that childbirth is like very bad menstrual cramps, and those are just like having indigestion. 7kK世界播

几个女人的反应很明显,因为他不是女人,也从未经历过分娩,所以他不知道这有多大的痛苦,或者不能与其他任何痛苦相提并论。他回应说,分娩就像非常严重的月经痉挛,就像消化不良一样。7kK世界播


I am sure you can imagine how women responded. It didn’t matter. He knew more about how pregnancy and menstrual cramps felt than women did. 7kK世界播

我相信你可以想象女性是怎么反应的。这不重要。他比女性更了解怀孕和月经痉挛的感受。7kK世界播


To a mansplainer, men just understand more about things in general. Women need things explained to them, as they are not objective about their own experience. There is also a list of things that one can expect a woman to be ignorant about, so that one launches into an explanation of the basics without first trying to see if help is needed. They are women, so their ignorance is assumed. 7kK世界播

对于男性说教者来说,男人只是在总体上对事物有更多的了解。女性需要向她们解释一些事情,因为她们对自己的经历并不客观。还有一系列的事情可能会让女人一无所知,所以你不必先试着去看看是否需要帮助,就可以开始解释这些基本的事情了。她们是女性,所以她们的无知被认为是假的。7kK世界播


An example of the latter which I have run into: My dad taught me how to change a tire as soon as I learned to drive. Several times I’ve had to do so. Sometimes a guy has stopped to offer help, and asked, “Do you need a hand?” All cool. If I needed help, I accepted the offer, if not he went on his way. But one time a guy stopped, watched as I got out my tools, and started explaining the proper technique for loosening the lug nuts before jacking up the car. Duh. would he have assumed that a guy who was acting like he knew how to change a tire would not know how to take the lug nuts off properly? I doubt it. 7kK世界播

我遇到的后一种情况的一个例子是:我一学会开车,爸爸就教我怎么换轮胎。有好几次我不得不这么做。有时有人会停下来提供帮助,问道:“你需要帮忙吗?”一切都很好。如果我需要帮助,我就接受这个提议,如果他不需要,我就走了。但有一次,一个家伙停了下来,看着我拿出工具,开始解释在顶起汽车之前松开拉杆螺母的正确技巧。呃.。他会认为一个表现得像是知道如何换轮胎的人不知道如何正确地取下拉环螺母吗?我怀疑。7kK世界播


If you would be equally condescending to a man, that’s just rudeness. If you would not make the same assumption of ignorance about a male, that is mansplaining. 7kK世界播

如果你对男人同样居高临下,那就是无礼了。如果你不会对男性做出同样的无知假设,那就是对男性的说教。7kK世界播


Sometimes there is borderline stuff. Me at an auto shop: 7kK世界播

有时会有一些边缘的东西。我在一家汽车商店:7kK世界播


“My sparkplugs are not working right. Either the contacts need cleaning or plugs need replacing. Please check them out and do whatever needs to be done.” 7kK世界播

“我的火花塞不能正常工作。要么是触点需要清洁,要么是插头需要更换。请把它们查出来,做任何需要做的事情。“。7kK世界播


“How do you know it is the sparkplugs?” 7kK世界播

“你怎么知道是火花塞?”7kK世界播


“I know what it feels like when they are not connected properly. There’s an odd hesitation that I have learned to recognize. I am feeling that. Please check the sparkplugs.” 7kK世界播

“我知道当他们没有正确连接的时候是什么感觉。我已经学会了认识到一种奇怪的犹豫。我感觉到了。请检查一下火花塞。“。7kK世界播


“Usually you can’t feel when the sparkplugs go bad. “ 7kK世界播

“通常情况下,你感觉不到火花塞坏了。“。7kK世界播


“But I can. So would you please check them?” 7kK世界播

“但我可以。所以请你检查一下好吗?“。7kK世界播


That went on for a while, including an explanation of how spark plugsplugs worked, and that checking them was a big deal. Finally they agreed to do the work, saying they would do a diagnostic for me if the sparkplugs were working properly. (They weren’t.) 7kK世界播

这一过程持续了一段时间,包括解释火花插件是如何工作的,以及检查它们是一件大事。最后,他们同意做这项工作,说如果火花塞工作正常,他们会为我做诊断。(事实并非如此。)。7kK世界播


Now, was that just auto mechanic arrogance, or were they assuming that because I was a woman I couldn’t diagnose my own car trouble? I’ve seen men at auto repair shops, and if they come in with a very specific request, in a tone that suggests they know how cars work, they are taken seriously. 7kK世界播

现在,这只是汽车修理工的傲慢,还是他们认为因为我是一个女人,我就不能诊断我自己的汽车故障?我在汽车修理店见过男人,如果他们提出一个非常具体的要求,语气表明他们知道汽车是怎么工作的,他们就会被认真对待。7kK世界播

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