所有的自恋者都会对他们的伴侣感到厌倦。理想化能持续多久? Gaylon Mcgillicutty 的回答火了

2020-10-16 12:15

All narcissists get bored with their partner. How long does idealization last? PAp世界播

所有的自恋者都会对他们的伴侣感到厌倦。理想化能持续多久?PAp世界播


Answered by: Gaylon Mcgillicutty PAp世界播

回答者:盖伦·麦吉利卡蒂(Gaylon McGillicutty)PAp世界播


Well as long as the narcissist doesn't get bored. Basically, when the supply does not have the means to entertain them. Narcissist do alot of what they do to avoid reality. With that said, they idealize people through a rather fantasy driven sight. I actually call it idolizing instead of idealizing. Because thats really what they do. They put a supply on a pedestal untill reality sets in and the narcissist can't idolize the supply due to the fact that the supply is the only one accepting realistic things. Narcissist are in love with the IDEA of being in love. Not the actual process of building a relationship and strengthing the true bond of love. Narcissist, in there fantasy driven motives, want to stay in the “ honeymoon “ phase forever. Realistically, that cannot happen. So that to is an answer to this question. Ever how long the “ honeymoon “ phase can last, the sex everyday, buying them gifts, vacations, you name it. Anything that entertains them other than reality. This is one area where most victims cause the most damage to themselves because at first, they honestly try to keep the narcissist entertained. Eventually they run out of resources. Money, credit, even running there own bodies into the ground trying to keep up with the narcissist demands. At that point, even the victim becomes addicted to the idealization phase because, rather they know it or not, its the only connection to the narcissist that they have. The idealization phase is as good as it will ever get with a narcissist. Sadly, the narcissist knows that from the beginning. PAp世界播

只要自恋者不觉得无聊就行。基本上,当供应者没有办法招待他们的时候。自恋者做很多事情来逃避现实。如上所述,他们通过一种相当幻想的景象将人们理想化。实际上,我称之为偶像崇拜,而不是理想化。因为他们真的就是这么做的。他们把供应品放在基座上,直到现实到来,自恋者不能崇拜供应品,因为供应品是唯一接受现实事物的人。自恋者喜欢恋爱的想法。而不是建立关系和加强真爱纽带的实际过程。自恋者,在有幻想驱使的动机下,想永远停留在“蜜月”阶段。实际上,这是不可能发生的。这就是这个问题的答案。不管“蜜月”阶段能持续多久,每天做爱,给他们买礼物,度假,什么都行。除了现实之外,任何能取悦他们的东西。这是大多数受害者给自己造成最大伤害的一个领域,因为一开始,他们诚实地试图让自恋者开心。最终他们会耗尽资源。钱,信贷,甚至在那里奔跑自己的身体,试图跟上自恋者的要求。在这一点上,即使是受害者也会沉迷于理想化阶段,因为不管他们知不知道,这是他们与自恋者的唯一联系。理想化阶段是一个自恋者所能达到的最好的阶段。可悲的是,自恋者从一开始就知道这一点。PAp世界播


How long will the idealization phase last? How much ya got in your bank account? How many days vacation do ya have saved up? How healthy are ya? Ever tried to have sex while fighting off the flu? Lol! Answer those questions and you'll have your answer. To easy! PAp世界播

理想化阶段会持续多久?你的银行账户里有多少钱?你存了几天假期?你身体健康吗?你有没有试过在抗击流感的同时做爱?LOL!。回答这些问题,你就会有答案。太简单了!PAp世界播


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