你碰见你的孩子正在做的最悲伤/最令人心烦的事情是什么? Sarah Alb 的回答火了

2020-10-14 18:28

What’s the saddest/most upsetting thing you’ve walked in on your child doing? PFr世界播

你碰见你的孩子正在做的最悲伤/最令人心烦的事情是什么?PFr世界播


Answered by: Sarah Alb,Professional Dog Trainer Over 20 years of experience PFr世界播

回答者:莎拉·阿尔布(Sarah Alb),拥有20多年经验的专业训犬师PFr世界播


Not my Child but my little sister. PFr世界播

不是我的孩子,而是我的小妹妹。PFr世界播


After my mother yelled at her for like the 20th time that day and told her to go to her room, I followed her shortly after and found her sitting on her bed crying. PFr世界播

那天我母亲对她大喊大叫了大概20次,让她回房间去,不久之后我就跟着她,发现她坐在床上哭。PFr世界播


I sat beside her (I have to say I really hated my sister to that time and she loved me, today we have a good relationship) and said nothing. PFr世界播

我坐在她旁边(我不得不说,当时我真的很讨厌我妹妹,她很爱我,今天我们关系很好),什么也没说。PFr世界播


She looked at me and said : PFr世界播

她看着我说:PFr世界播


“I want to die, I can't take it anymore. Maybe that's for the best so nobody screams at me.” PFr世界播

“我想死,我再也受不了了。也许这是最好的,这样就没有人对我尖叫了。“。PFr世界播


It was that moment that I knew she was suffering like I did. I never thought about that and never thought that she could have the same thoughts I had at her age. PFr世界播

就在那一刻,我知道她和我一样痛苦。我从来没有想过这一点,也从来没有想过她会有和我在她这个年纪一样的想法。PFr世界播


When I saw her sitting and crying in despair I started to realize that something is wrong with my family. I always thought that it was my fault and I needed to be punished. But seeing her, knowing she did nothing wrong and was screamed and insulted like this everyday made it clear to me… Maybe there is something happening that's not right… PFr世界播

当我看到她坐在那里绝望地哭泣时,我开始意识到我的家庭出了问题。我一直认为这是我的错,我需要受到惩罚。但看到她,知道她没有做错什么,每天都被这样尖叫和侮辱,这让我很清楚,…。也许有什么不对劲的事情发生了,…。PFr世界播


I hugged her and said ”I know exactly how you feel and you're not alone. I can't always be there for you (I moved out with 17)but tell me if there is something that bothers you and I will try to protect you from mom.” PFr世界播

我拥抱她说:“我完全理解你的感受,你并不孤单。我不能一直陪在你身边(我和17岁的孩子一起搬出去了),但如果有什么让你烦恼的事情告诉我,我会尽力保护你不受妈妈的伤害。“。PFr世界播


She was 5 at this time and I was 18. PFr世界播

这个时候她5岁,我18岁。PFr世界播


She turns 16 next year and she became a strong and independent person. Not listening to my mother shouting and insulting. She can be proud of her, at least I am. We turned out to be totally different person while experiencing the same childhood. PFr世界播

明年她就16岁了,她变成了一个坚强而独立的人。不听我妈妈大喊大叫和辱骂。她可以为她感到骄傲,至少我是。在经历同样的童年时,我们变成了完全不同的人。PFr世界播


I'm still in therapy and I'm sure she also didn't made it without psychological problems but she deals better with it. PFr世界播

我还在接受治疗,我相信她也不是没有心理问题,但她处理得更好。PFr世界播


I will never ever forget that moment. PFr世界播

我永远不会忘记那一刻。PFr世界播

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